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Before the Sirens: Domestic Violence and Mental Health The Crisis We Don’t Talk About Enough

Felicia Kelly-Brookins — Wed, 24 Jun 2026 17:06:01 +0000

MAJOR TAKEAWAYS

• Domestic violence often develops gradually, with warning signs appearing long before physical violence occurs.

• Untreated mental health challenges combined with substance abuse can increase instability and risk within intimate relationships.

• Prevention begins with awareness, intervention, treatment, and recognizing dangerous behaviors before tragedy strikes.

A Mother’s Grief. A Daughter’s Legacy. A Conversation That Could Save Lives.

By Felicia Brookins Award-Winning Author and Screenwriter There is always a moment before the sirens. A quiet moment. An ordinary moment. The kind where nothing appears wrong from the outside. Doors are closed. Neighbors go about their day. Families make plans for the future. Yet behind some of those doors, something is unraveling. Conversations become confrontations. Fear goes unnamed. Mental health struggles collide with control, instability, and unhealthy relationship dynamics. What once felt like love slowly transforms into something dangerous. By the time the sirens arrive, the damage is already done. What follows often becomes a headline, a court case, or another statistic added to an ever-growing national crisis. What rarely receives the same attention are the warning signs that came before the months or even years of emotional turmoil, overlooked red flags, and opportunities for intervention. It is in that space before the sirens that domestic violence and untreated mental health challenges quietly claim lives. One of those lives was Demetria Bracey. A promising 21-year-old student at the University of Mississippi, Bracey was preparing to graduate and build the future she had envisioned. Friends and family describe a young woman filled with ambition, intelligence, and hope. That future was stolen when she was killed by her boyfriend, David Jackson Williams. During the investigation and subsequent trial, questions surrounding Williams’ mental and emotional state became part of the public record. However, those struggles did not define how Demetria saw him. She loved him. She believed in him. She chose compassion over fear. Like many victims of intimate partner violence, she did not see herself as being in danger. She saw someone she cared about, someone she hoped would overcome his struggles. That trust would ultimately cost her life. During Williams’ 2005 murder trial, his defense argued that the couple had entered into a mutual suicide agreement and that both individuals were experiencing significant emotional distress. Prosecutors challenged that claim, presenting forensic evidence that the fatal wound was inconsistent with a self-inflicted injury. The jury rejected the defense’s argument and convicted Williams of murder. The verdict underscored a painful reality: unresolved violence within intimate relationships can become deadly. Yet Demetria Bracey’s story is not an isolated tragedy. It exists within a larger national emergency. According to public health research, nearly half of all women and more than one-quarter of all men in the United States will experience physical violence, sexual violence, or stalking by an intimate partner during their lifetime. Every year, millions of Americans become victims of domestic violence. Thousands lose their lives. Millions more are left carrying physical and emotional scars that may never fully heal. Beyond the visible injuries lies another crisis mental health. Depression, anxiety, trauma-related disorders, substance abuse, and emotional instability frequently exist alongside domestic violence. In many cases, these issues do not excuse abusive behavior, but they can intensify risk factors when left untreated. Mental health professionals have long warned about the dangers of combining psychiatric medications with illicit drug use. The interaction can impair judgment, weaken impulse control, distort reality, and increase emotional volatility. In certain cases, it can contribute to paranoia, aggression, or severe emotional instability. According to Demetria Bracey’s mother, Williams was using drugs while also taking medication intended to address his mental health challenges. Although detailed medical records were not introduced during the trial, experts widely acknowledge that combining prescribed psychiatric treatment with illegal substances can significantly reduce the effectiveness of medication and increase the potential for harmful outcomes. The consequences often extend beyond the individual. They impact spouses, partners, children, parents, and entire communities. One of the most difficult truths about domestic violence is that warning signs are often overlooked by those closest to the situation. Loved ones rationalize concerning behavior because they care. Partners stay because they believe things will improve. Families hesitate to intervene because they fear stigma, conflict, or being wrong. But love cannot replace treatment. Compassion cannot substitute for accountability. And hope alone cannot guarantee safety. When mental health conditions go untreated or when treatment is disrupted through substance abuse—the risks can escalate dramatically. Recognizing those risks is not an act of betrayal. Encouraging professional treatment is not abandonment. Establishing boundaries is not cruelty. Prioritizing safety is not a lack of love. Mental health care is about more than helping individuals find stability. It is also about protecting the people who care about them most. Demetria Bracey’s story reminds us that violence rarely begins with tragedy. It often begins quietly in moments that seem ordinary, in behaviors that are excused, and in warning signs that are mistaken for temporary struggles. Behind every domestic violence statistic is a human being who had dreams, plans, and people who loved them. A daughter. A friend. A student. A future. The greatest lesson from Demetria’s story is that prevention begins before the sirens. It begins with conversations about mental health. It begins with recognizing warning signs. It begins with refusing to normalize behaviors that place others at risk. Because waiting until tragedy forces awareness is a price no family should ever have to pay.

National Domestic Violence Hotline: Call 800-799-SAFE (7233) or visit the hotline’s official website for confidential support 24 hours a day.

5 Powerful Truths About Race, Freedom, Stereotypes, History, and Equality in America

Urban City Podcast Group — Fri, 12 Jun 2026 14:31:00 +0000

Major Takeaways

Historical stereotypes about Black Americans did not emerge naturally; they were created and reinforced through social, political, and economic systems after slavery.
Perceptions influence behavior, policy, and opportunity, making it important to examine the origins of long-standing racial narratives.
True freedom requires not only legal rights but also dignity, equal treatment, and the presumption of humanity.

How Black Americans Went From Valuable Labor to Disposable Lives

An Urban City Podcast Featured Opinion Editorial

By Felicia Kelly-Brookins• 7 min read

PART II-Continuing the Conversation
In Part I of this series, I asked a question America has never fully answered; How did a people
once considered valuable enough to be bought, sold, insured, worked, and exploited become a
people so often portrayed as dangerous, lazy, criminal, and disposable once they were free?

It is a question that remains as uncomfortable today as it was then. Yet it is a question we cannot
afford to ignore. Before emancipation, enslaved Africans were viewed primarily through the lens
of economics. They were denied citizenship, denied basic human rights, and denied the dignity
afforded to others, yet their labor was considered indispensable to the nation's prosperity. Their
hands built industries. Their labor generated wealth. Their work transformed cotton into a
global commodity and helped establish America as an economic power. No one questioned
whether Black people could work when plantations, railroads, farms, and businesses depended
upon their labor.

No one argued they lacked value when financial institutions accepted them as collateral and
slaveholders calculated their worth down to the dollar. No one questioned their productivity
when entire industries profited from their forced labor. Then slavery ended. And suddenly,
freedom itself became a problem. Not because African Americans lacked the ability or desire to
work, but because those who had built wealth from free labor were now confronted with the
possibility of paying for it. The abolition of slavery did not eliminate the desire for control. It
simply demanded a different method.

The greatest irony in American history is not what happened to Black people after slavery.
It is how they were described. The same people whose labor was considered essential suddenly
became portrayed as lazy. The same people who built wealth for others suddenly became
portrayed as unwilling to work. The same people who had survived centuries of oppression
suddenly became portrayed as the source of America’s problems. These stereotypes did not
emerge by accident. They emerged because systems of inequality often require stories to justify
themselves.

If African Americans demanded fair wages, they could be labeled difficult.
If they demanded equal rights, they could be labeled dangerous. If they challenged injustice, they
could be labeled disruptive. If they organized politically, they could be labeled threatening and if
they were viewed as threats, unequal treatment became easier to defend. Over time those
narratives weren’t just reflected in laws, They were painted into newspapers, Movies, Television,

Politics, Public policy and eventually, public consciousness.
What began as propaganda became perception, What became perception eventually became
belief, and belief has consequences. And what happens when a stereotype comes before the
facts? In my opinion, one of the most troubling legacies of America's racial history is not simply
the laws it created, but the assumptions it normalized.

For generations, Black Americans have
lived beneath the weight of narratives that portray them as suspicious before they are known,
threatening before they are understood, and guilty before facts are established. This type of
history matters because perceptions influence decisions. And decisions have consequences.
For example, the tragic death of 14-year-old Cyrus Carmack-Belton and the recent verdict
involving store owner, 61 year-old-Ricky Chow, has reignited conversations about race,
perception, and whose lives receive the benefit of the doubt. The legal questions were for a jury
to decide.

The social questions belong to all of us. At the center of this tragedy was a Black child
who was viewed through a lens of suspicion before the facts were fully known. For generations,
Black boys have often been perceived as older than they are, More dangerous than they are,
More threatening than they are, and more criminal.

The issue is not whether Black youth are incapable of making mistakes,The issue is whether they
are granted the same presumption of innocence, humanity, and childhood as others. Would the
same assumptions have been made if the child’s skin tone had been different? Would the same
pursuit have occurred if different stereotypes had been attached to him? Would fear have
escalated as quickly?

Those are uncomfortable questions. But they are questions worth asking.
Because when stereotypes become so deeply rooted that they shape how people interpret
behavior, ordinary encounters can become dangerous ones.The larger concern is not one case,It
is a culture that has spent centuries associating Blackness with criminality while rarely
examining how those associations were created in the first place.
A people once considered valuable enough to build a nation became a people too often viewed
through a lens of suspicion within the nation they helped build.

Today, discussions about race often become trapped in political arguments. One side insists
racism is over and the other points to evidence that it isn’t.
This is not about me assigning guilt to people living today for actions committed generations
ago. Nor is it about creating hostility between racial or ethnic groups. It is about understanding
how systems, laws, and narratives shape perception. Because perceptions shape behavior,
Behavior shapes policy, and policy shapes lives.

The stereotypes surrounding African Americans
did not happen naturally, They were created, reinforced, and repeated. And they continue to
influence how Black Americans are viewed and treated even today.
America often celebrates the end of slavery but there is rarely acknowledgement of what
happened afterwards, The Black Codes, Convict leasing, Peonage, Sharecropping, Segregation,
Discriminatory policing, Economic exclusion, Housing discrimination, Educational inequities
and so much more.

The question has never simply been whether Black Americans were free.The
question has always been whether Black Americans would be treated as fully human. Because
freedom without dignity is incomplete. Freedom without opportunity is fragile. And freedom
without equal humanity in my opinion isn’t truly freedom at all.
The challenge before America is not simply to remember history, The challenge is to recognize
where its residue still remains. Because freedom is not merely the absence of chains, Freedom is
the presence of dignity. It is the ability to move through society without carrying the burden of
assumptions created centuries before your birth. It is being seen as a citizen before being seen as
a suspect., It is being seen as a child before being seen as a threat and until America fully
embraces that truth, the distance between freedom and equality will remain what it has always
been: Unfinished.

Felicia Kelly-Brookins is a four-time award-winning author, educator, screenwriter, cultural
advocate, and founder of S.A.F.E. S.P.A.C.E. TheaterTherapyFoundation. Her work examines the
intersections of history, race, faith, trauma, and social justice while creating spaces for difficult
conversations that lead to understanding and healing.

3 Things We Must Learn From This Conversation
1. Question the Narratives You Inherit
Not every belief we hold was formed through personal experience. Many stereotypes are passed
down through history, media, culture, and institutions. Take time to examine where your
assumptions come from and whether they are rooted in fact, fear, or tradition.

2. Learn the History Behind the Headlines
Current tensions cannot be fully understood without understanding the systems that came before
them. Slavery, Black Codes, convict leasing, sharecropping, peonage, segregation, anddiscriminatory policies did not simply disappear they helped shape perceptions that continue to
influence society today.

3. See People Before Stereotypes
Every person deserves the opportunity to be known before they are judged. When assumptions
replace understanding, humanity is diminished. Progress begins when we choose to see
individuals as people first, not as labels, fears, or stereotypes attached to their race, background, or community.

3 Historic Shifts That Rewrote Black Worth in America

Urban City Podcast Group — Thu, 11 Jun 2026 19:43:49 +0000

MAJOR TAKEAWAYS

• Enslaved Black Americans helped build the economic foundation of America while being denied basic human rights and freedoms.

• Following emancipation, Black Codes and discriminatory laws were used to restrict opportunities and maintain control over Black labor.

• The 13th Amendment’s exception clause created a pathway for convict leasing, allowing forced labor to continue under a different legal framework.

THE PRICE OF FREEDOM

By Felicia Kelly-Brookins• 2 min read

An Urban City Podcast Featured Opinion Editorial

PART I- How America Rewrote the Story of Black Worth After Slavery
There is a question America has spent more than 160 years avoiding, How did a people once
considered valuable enough to build a nation become a people so often viewed with suspicion
inside the nation they helped build? It is a question rooted in history and reflected in policy. And
it is a question that still echoes through courtrooms, classrooms, neighborhoods, businesses, and
headlines today.

For more than two centuries, enslaved Africans and their descendants were considered among
the most valuable commodities in America. Their labor fueled an economy. Their bodies
generated wealth. Their hands built fortunes they would never inherit. Yet, America denied them
freedom, citizenship, education and the right of humanity. Yet somehow, America never denied
their value.

No one questioned whether Black people were hardworking while the nation’s
agricultural economy depended upon their labor. No one questioned their reliability when entire
industries were built on their backs, and no one questioned their productivity when their labor
enriched plantation owners, banks, railroads, merchants, and businesses throughout the country.
Their labor was valuable. Their lives were not. Then slavery ended and something remarkable
happened.

The value assigned to Black labor began to disappear, while the stereotypes assigned
to Black people began to grow. The Civil War ended slavery but it did not end America’s
dependence on controlling Black labor. The emancipation of four million formerly enslaved
people created an economic crisis for those who had built wealth through free labor. Suddenly,
the workforce that had once generated enormous profits could no longer legally be owned.

The solution was not equality; The solution was adaptation. Southern states quickly enacted
Black Codes designed to restrict the movement, employment, and freedoms of newly
emancipated African Americans. Laws were written that criminalized unemployment. They
targeted loitering, vagrancy, movement and the very existence of black people.

Thousands of Black men found themselves arrested not because they were dangerous, but because they were
Black and free in a society struggling to accept either. Then came one of the most overlooked
realities in American history, The 13th Amendment. The 13th Amendment abolished slavery and
involuntary servitude, except as punishment for a crime. That exception became a doorway to
convict leasing in the South .

The 2026 African American Cultural Fair returns Wednesday with a few big changes; a tribute event for Ty Gant

Urban City Podcast Group — Wed, 27 May 2026 19:00:58 +0000

Major Takeaways

The African American Cultural Fair returns to Reservoir Park with a five-day carnival, cultural events, live entertainment, and community activities.
A new local Black art exhibition featuring nine artists adds a fresh cultural element to this year’s celebration.
Despite the parade cancellation due to construction and sponsorship challenges, organizers expanded programming with dance battles, drum lines, and performances.

Five days of music, art, food, and unity bring Lancaster’s Black community celebration back to life at Reservoir Park.

Reservoir Park will transform this week from a blank canvas to a cultural fair and carnival that celebrates Black and African American cultures in Lancaster. The annual African American Cultural Fair, which returns Wednesday and continues through Sunday, may look a little different than previous years, however. For starters, there will be a new art exhibition held at the event, featuring art from nine local Black artists, with works set up on easels donated by the Lancaster Art Vault. Community group Friends of Reservoir Park led much of the planning for the exhibit. The first 25 people to see the exhibition, held under the pavilion in Reservoir Park, will get an art print from Lancaster artist Keisha Finnie. Derek Smith of the African American Cultural Alliance of Lancaster (AACAL) which hosts the festival says that in order for the event to continue celebrating African American culture, it has to be representative of what the community is doing. While an art exhibition is an unfamiliar concept at the event, it’s important to try, Smith says. Another unfamiliarity is that AACAL is not hosting a parade this year due to construction and fewer sponsorships, Smith says. (Smith credits sponsors such as Highmark Wholecare, Lancaster Toyota, the City Limits Foundation and the Lancaster County Community Foundation, for the event being able to happen this year). In place of the parade, the AACAL will host a drill team, drum line and dance battle. “In order for stuff in our community to thrive, we have to be consistent,” Smith says. “Black people have always figured out a way to make things work.” But, it’s important to persist anyways and bring culture and community to Reservoir Park, Smith says. That’s why the event will include a five-day carnival, complete with a midway, games and food, as well as a talent show, a tribute event, line dancing, a worshipping event and a concert with R&B group Day26. For the rides, there will be $30 all-you-can-ride wristbands that can be used Wednesday and Thursday. This year, tickets will be done through an app called Magic Money, or through a pre-paid card. “When we do events in our neighborhood, it creates economic development in our neighborhood,” Smith says, adding that groups often come from out of town to visit the event. While it’s an event that celebrates African American and Black cultures, Smith says that everyone is welcome and should consider attending to experience the culture and the food. “Black culture and African American culture needs to be celebrated on the scale of every other culture across the city,” Smith says. “Our event is not just for Black people. It’s open to anybody.”

4 Haunting Truths About Race, Power, and American Justice

Felicia Kelly-Brookins — Fri, 22 May 2026 14:00:21 +0000

Major Takeaways •Law and Order Should Not Change Faces •America Often Responds Differently to Different Forms of Disorder •Black Communities Have Experienced Collective Harm Beyond Individual Loss Op-Editorial by Felicia Kelly-Brookins• 6 min read

Whose Pain Counts? The Unequal Politics of Justice in America

America has always claimed justice is blind. History suggests it often recognizes faces before it recognizes facts. Millions of dollars. For many Americans, that number immediately sounds like compensation for victims of violence, families who lost loved ones, communities destroyed by hate, or people whose lives were permanently altered by injustice. But recently, national attention has turned toward lawsuits and settlements involving figures connected to the political world surrounding former President Donald Trump, including legal claims brought by some individuals tied to the January 6 Capitol attack who say they suffered physical and emotional harm during law enforcement& #39’s response to their riot. The debate surrounding those claims is larger than politics. Because for many Americans, particularly many Black Americans, the conversation immediately creates an uncomfortable question: When did America become willing to revisit certain wounds while leaving others buried beneath history? The issue is not whether individuals possess legal rights. They do. The issue is not whether courts should hear claims. They should. The issue is something deeper. Because when people hear discussions about compensation, sympathy, and restoration attached to an event where the nation's Capitol was stormed, some cannot help but remember generations of people who watched homes burn, businesses disappear, families scatter, and lives end, without seeing equal urgency toward restoration. And suddenly the phrase law and order begins to sound less like a principle and more like a mirror. A mirror reflecting who America believes deserves understanding. And who does not. Recent conversations surrounding legal claims connected to individuals involved in the January 6 Capitol attack have reignited a deeper issue in the American conscience, not simply whether people have legal rights, because they do, but whether the meaning of law and order has shifted depending on who is standing before the law. America watched the Capitol under siege in January 2021. Windows shattered. Officers struggled against crowds. Members of Congress evacuated. The seat of American democracy was breached by rioters. Years later, some individuals connected to that event have argued that they suffered injuries from police response tactics and have pursued legal remedies through the court system. And that raises no issue by itself. Every American has the right to due process. Every American has the right to seek legal redress. That is not the problem. The deeper question is why the national emotional response surrounding law and order sometimes appears to change according to identity, politics, and history. Because Black Americans know another version of the story. They know communities where law arrived late, or not at all. Communities where order existed only after destruction had already happened. Communities where laws protected property more aggressively than they protected people. Consider what happened when Black communities attempted to build prosperity. In places across America, economic success did not always produce protection. Sometimes it produced hostility. In some communities, businesses were burned. Homes disappeared. Lives were taken. Families fled. Generational wealth evaporated. Entire neighborhoods became historical footnotes. And often the people responsible were not held accountable. The question is uncomfortable because it is not simply asking whether laws existed. It is asking whether laws functioned equally. There is a difference. Because law and order are not merely words on paper. They are lived experiences. For some Americans, law represented protection. For others, law represented delayed justice. For some, disorder meant immediate national outrage. For others, disorder became inheritance. Inherited stories about grandparents who ran, Stories about property that disappeared, Stories about violence no one answered for, Stories about silence, And silence can become its own form of inheritance. America often frames justice as punishment. But perhaps justice asks harder questions. Who gets seen as troubled instead of dangerous? Who gets called misguided instead of criminal? Who gets viewed as redeemable? And who must constantly prove their humanity before receiving empathy? Because perhaps the issue was never simply about law. Perhaps it has always been about interpretation, About who receives understanding, grace, and who receives the presumption that their pain matters. America says justice is blind. History suggests justice may occasionally peek beneath the blindfold. And if that is true, then perhaps the conversation that should be had is whether America has applied justice with equal urgency, and humanity. Because law and order means very little if the meaning changes depending on who is standing before the law. About the Contributor Felicia Kelly-Brookins is an award-winning author, screenwriter, playwright, and the Founder and Executive Director of the S.A.F.E. S.P.A.C.E. TheaterTherapy Foundation, an organization dedicated to creating emotionally safe spaces for youth, teens, families, and communities through storytelling, theatrical dialogue, literacy, and mental health advocacy. Known for blending cultural commentary, emotional truth, faith, family dynamics, and social awareness into her work, Brookins uses her voice to challenge difficult conversations surrounding identity, trauma, generational silence, mental health, relationships, and the complexities of Black culture. Her work is deeply rooted in advocacy, authenticity, and the belief that storytelling has the power not only to entertain, but to heal, confront, educate, and transform communities

7 Powerful Truths About Bonnets, Black Culture & America’s Double Standards

Felicia Kelly-Brookins — Thu, 21 May 2026 14:00:05 +0000

Major Takeaways:

The bonnet debate reflects America’s larger shift toward comfort-centered fashion and casual public presentation.
Generational divides around appearance are deeply tied to survival, professionalism, emotional burnout, and cultural expectations.
Conversations about bonnets and do-rags are ultimately rooted in race, identity, stereotypes, and the policing of Black appearance.

PART FOUR: The Bonnet’s Transition From Private to Public: From “Inside Clothes” to Public Fashion

Op Editorial by Felicia Kelly-Brookins• 5 min read There was a time when getting dressed to leave the house felt almost ceremonial in many Black communities. You had “house clothes,” You had “outside clothes,” You had church outfits, School outfits, Special occasion outfits, and Sunday best. Presentation mattered. And for many Black families, public appearance was not treated casually. Hair was combed. Clothes were coordinated. Wrinkles were unacceptable. Elders often viewed stepping outside looking “presentable” as a reflection of discipline, pride, dignity, and self- respect. But America itself has changed dramatically over the past several decades. What once would have been considered too casual for public spaces is now normalized almost everywhere. Slides are worn to restaurants and airports, Hoodies became luxury wear, Pajamas appear in grocery stores, schools, and even designer collections. Loungewear became an entire industry. Comfort culture is no longer an exception. It is mainstream. The debate about bonnets is part of a bigger cultural change happening everywhere, not just among Black people. Society today is much more relaxed about clothing and appearance than it used to be. People everywhere now wear comfortable clothes in public that older generations once considered inappropriate or “too casual.” So when people criticize Black women for wearing bonnets in public, the criticism ignores the fact that the entire culture has shifted toward comfort, convenience, and casual fashion overall. It is also subtly pointing out a double standard: Many behaviors that are now socially accepted for everyone still receive heavier criticism when associated with Black people first. That contradiction deserves honest discussion. Because when Black women wear bonnets publicly, the reaction often becomes deeper than fashion commentary. The conversation quickly shifts into morality, class, parenting, self-respect, intelligence, and cultural pride in ways that other communities are not scrutinized nearly as heavily. And honestly, that weight becomes exhausting. Many people today are carrying levels of stress, burnout, financial pressure, anxiety, depression, and emotional fatigue that previous generations rarely discussed publicly. People are exhausted.And perhaps the public bonnet has unintentionally become symbolic of something much larger than hair maintenance. Maybe it reflects modern fatigue, Maybe it reflects emotional burnout, Maybe it reflects people no longer wanting to package themselves perfectly every single moment they exist in public. That does not necessarily mean presentation no longer matters. But it may explain why many younger people increasingly reject older respectability politics altogether. For older generations, appearance was often connected to survival. For younger generations, constant performance can feel emotionally draining. That tension is real. And honestly, I think both sides are speaking from experiences shaped by completely different worlds. One generation survived discrimination by becoming hyper-aware of public presentation. Another generation is questioning whether endless performance for public comfort is emotionally sustainable at all. And somewhere in the middle sits the bonnet. Not just as satin or silk, but as symbol. Because the truth is the criticism and the conversations are never really about the bonnets or do-rags. The real conversation underneath all of this is about race, class, generational values, self-expression, stereotypes and respectability politics. It’s about who gets to exist comfortably without being psychologically analyzed through appearance. America has always politicized Black presentation. Black hair alone has carried centuries of social commentary, workplace discrimination, beauty politics, cultural appropriation, and identity policing. So it makes sense that bonnets and do-rags eventually became part of that larger national conversation too. Because Black people have always had to navigate the exhausting balance between authenticity and acceptability. How Black should we look? How comfortable are we allowed to be publicly? How polished must we appear to receive dignity? How much performance is required before society sees our humanity? Those questions have quietly followed Black communities for generations. And perhaps that is why the bonnet conversation feels so emotionally charged. It is not really about silk. It is about what Black people believe we owe society visually, and what society believes it is entitled to demand from us in return. As a Black woman who deeply loves our culture, I believe there must be room for nuance in this conversation. Yes, presentation matters in certain environments. Yes, pride matters. Yes, professionalism matters. Yes, self-expression matters. Yes, freedom matters. But I also believe Black people deserve the freedom to exist without every appearance becoming a referendum on our intelligence, values, upbringing, or worthiness. Because the reality is: Black people did not create hair protection practices because they were trendy. We created them out of necessity, Out of grooming, Out of maintenance, Out of care. Out of innovation within a society that historically excluded our textures, our beauty standards, and our aesthetics from mainstream acceptance. And when society mocks Black people for wearing bonnets or do-rags while simultaneously borrowing from our style culture, it exposes a contradiction much larger than fashion itself. The issue was never really cloth. The issue has always been perception. And perhaps the deeper challenge for Black communities moving forward is finding balance between cultural pride, personal freedom, presentation, professionalism, comfort, and the right to exist without constant scrutiny. Because whether wrapped in silk, satin, waves, braids, curls, or locs, Black hair has never merely been hair. It has always been history. Felicia Kelly-Brookins 3 Important Truths About The Bonnet’s Transition From Private to Public 1. The Bonnet Debate Reflects Larger Cultural Changes America as a whole has become more casual over time, with comfort-centered fashion becoming normalized across society. The public bonnet conversation exists within that broader shift. 2. Respectability Politics and Exhaustion Are Colliding Older generations often viewed presentation as protection and survival, while many younger people are increasingly rejecting the emotional burden of constant public performance. 3. The Real Issue Is About Identity, Not Satin The conversation surrounding bonnets and do-rags ultimately reflects deeper issues involving race, class, gender, authenticity, stereotypes, and society’s policing of Black appearance. About the Contributor: Felicia Kelly-Brookins is an award-winning author, screenwriter, playwright, and the Founder and Executive Director of the S.A.F.E. S.P.A.C.E. TheaterTherapy Foundation, an organization dedicated to creating emotionally safe spaces for youth, teens, families, and communities through storytelling, theatrical dialogue, literacy, and mental health advocacy Known for blending cultural commentary, emotional truth, faith, family dynamics, and social awareness into her work, Brookins uses her voice to challenge difficult conversations surrounding identity, trauma, generational silence, mental health, relationships, and the complexities of Black culture. Her work is deeply rooted in advocacy, authenticity, and the belief that storytelling has the power not only to entertain, but to heal, confront, educate, and transform communities.

3 Uncomfortable Truths About Black Culture & America’s Selective Acceptance

Felicia Kelly-Brookins — Wed, 20 May 2026 14:00:07 +0000

PART THREE:

The Double Standard: Cultural Theft and Selective Acceptance

Op Editorial by Felicia Kelly-Brookins• 5 min read One of the most exhausting things about being Black in America is watching our culture move through the same cycle over and over again. First, it gets mocked, Then criticized, Then labeled “ghetto, ” Then feared, Then copied, Then monetized, Then suddenly called innovative once somebody else wears it. And if we are honest, many Black people have become emotionally numb to this pattern because we have watched it happen our entire lives. Styles once ridiculed inside classrooms, workplaces, television commentary, and public spaces somehow transform into “fashion statements” the moment they become separated from Black identity itself. What was once called: “ghetto,” “ratchet,” “hood,” or “unprofessional,” suddenly becomes: “streetwear,” “high fashion,” or “urban chic.” And the emotional whiplash of that contradiction is something Black communities know intimately. We have watched it happen with long nails, Hoop earrings, Braided hairstyles, Lip aesthetics, Slang, Lashes, Laid edges and even Headwear. Even the very aesthetics society once used to stereotype Black people eventually become billion- dollar trends once mainstream culture repackages them. And now, somehow, we have arrived at a place where even bonnets and pajama-inspired fashion aesthetics are entering mainstream style conversations after years of Black women being publicly shamed for them. That irony is hard to ignore. Because underneath these conversations is a much deeper question: Is society truly reacting to the clothing itself…or reacting to Blackness attached to the clothing? That question matters. Because history has shown us repeatedly that Black culture is often celebrated only after Black people absorb the humiliation phase first. We are often the testing ground for trends that society initially condemns before later consuming. And there is something emotionally exhausting about constantly watching your culture become acceptable only after other people sanitize it, commercialize it, or make it feel “less Black” to mainstream audiences. That is why these conversations about bonnets and do-rags are about more than fabric. The discussions should be about about ownership, power, acceptance and who gets to embody culture without punishment. We should also address how quickly authenticity becomes marketable once the original creators are removed from the center of the narrative. Black people are not imagining this phenomenon. We have seen corporations profit from aesthetics Black students were once punished for in school. We have seen hairstyles called “unprofessional” suddenly appear in luxury campaigns. We have watched slang born in Black communities become social media language while the verypeople who created it are still stereotyped for speaking naturally. The double standard is not subtle anymore. It is visible everywhere. But one of the most fascinating shifts happening within this conversation involves Black masculinity itself. Because for years, the do-rag and bonnet carried heavily gendered meanings inside Black culture. The do-rag was largely coded masculine. The bonnet was coded feminine. That distinction shaped perception for generations. Many Black men historically would not have publicly worn a bonnet, because they were protecting and reflecting their masculinity. Black masculinity in America has long existed under pressure. Pressure to appear tough, Pressure to appear emotionally controlled, Pressure to appear hardened and Pressure to avoid anything perceived as “soft.” Many Black men grew up in environments where appearing too soft could invite ridicule, disrespect, danger, or questions about manhood itself. So the visual language of masculinity was rigid. The do-rag fit comfortably inside that image because society had already attached ideas of toughness, street identity, athleticism, and urban masculinity to it. But the bonnet disrupted that. A bonnet carries different visual associations such as softness or some form of feminism. Society still struggles with the idea of Black men publicly embodying those things without suspicion or discomfort entering the conversation. Today, many Black men openly wear bonnets for completely practical reasons. Men with locs, braids, curls, natural hair, and longer styles understand hair protection just as much as Black women do. But public reaction still reveals something deeper. Because for some people, seeing a Black man in a bonnet disrupts the hardened image society expects him to maintain. And honestly, that discomfort says more about society’s relationship with Black masculinity than it does about bonnets. Why should protecting your hair challenge perceptions of manhood? Why is softness still treated like weakness in Black men? Why does self-care still make some people uncomfortable when attached to Black men? Those questions deserve real conversation. In Part Four, the final article in this series, I will explore The Bonnet’s Transition From Private to Public, examining how a deeply personal symbol of Black hair care and nighttime maintenance evolved into a public cultural statement, social controversy, fashion conversation, and reflection of changing generational attitudes toward identity, comfort, visibility, and self- expression. 3 Important Truths About Cultural Theft & Selective Acceptance 1. Black Culture Is Often Criticized Before It Is Celebrated Many aesthetics associated with Black communities are first labeled “ghetto,” “unprofessional,” or “too urban” before later becoming profitable mainstream trends. 2. The Real Issue Is Often Blackness, Not the Style Itself The same hairstyles, fashion choices, slang, or aesthetics frequently receive different reactions depending on who is wearing them and how closely they are associated with Black identity. 3. Black Masculinity Is Still Heavily Policed The public discomfort surrounding Black men wearing bonnets reveals how rigidly society still defines masculinity, softness, vulnerability, and self-care for Black men. About the Contributor: Felicia Kelly-Brookins is an award-winning author, screenwriter, playwright, and the Founder and Executive Director of the S.A.F.E. S.P.A.C.E. TheaterTherapy Foundation, an organization dedicated to creating emotionally safe spaces for youth, teens, families, and communities through storytelling, theatrical dialogue, literacy, and mental health advocacy Known for blending cultural commentary, emotional truth, faith, family dynamics, and social awareness into her work, Brookins uses her voice to challenge difficult conversations surrounding identity, trauma, generational silence, mental health, relationships, and the complexities of Black culture. Her work is deeply rooted in advocacy, authenticity, and the belief that storytelling has the power not only to entertain, but to heal, confront, educate, and transform communities.

3 Important Truths About Do-Rags, Bonnets, Black Identity, Respectability & Stereotypes

Felicia Kelly-Brookins — Tue, 19 May 2026 14:00:37 +0000

Major Takeaways

Do-rags and bonnets began as practical hair maintenance and protective tools before becoming heavily politicized cultural symbols.
Respectability politics within Black communities were often shaped by survival, dignity, and navigating racial discrimination in America.
Public debates surrounding Black appearance reflect deeper societal issues involving race, gender, identity, and cultural double standards.

PART TWO: Bonnets, Do-rags, Satin & Stereotypes: Why America Loves Our Culture But Judges Our Presentation

Op Editorial by Felicia Kelly-Brookins• 5 min read Long before the do-rag became attached to hip-hop culture, social media debates, or public controversy, it was something far more practical. It was maintenance and culture. The history of the do-rag stretches back generations within Black communities. Historically, head wraps and cloth coverings were commonly worn by enslaved Africans, Black laborers, and later Black workers performing physically demanding labor under harsh conditions. These coverings helped absorb sweat, protect hair, and provide functionality during long hours of work. Like many things within Black culture, what began as necessity eventually evolved into identity. By the mid-to-late 20th century, the do-rag became deeply connected to Black grooming culture, especially within urban communities where wave culture emerged as both style and discipline. Maintaining waves required consistency, compression, care, and routine. The do-rag became part of that process. But somewhere between barber chairs, street culture, sports, and music videos, the do-rag transformed into something larger . By the 1990s and early 2000s, hip-hop culture pushed the do-rag into mainstream visibility. Rappers wore them proudly. Athletes made them recognizable. Music videos commercialized them. Fashion brands capitalized on them. The do-rag no longer represented only hair maintenance, Now it represented image. Masculinity, Urban identity,Toughness, Swagger, Street authenticity, And honestly, that visibility came with a price. Because America has always had a complicated relationship with Black expression, especially when Black people wear our culture unapologetically. The same do-rag celebrated in entertainment spaces suddenly became “inappropriate” in others. Schools banned them, Restaurants refused entry over them, Workplaces labeled them “unprofessional.” Airports and public spaces often treated Black men wearing them with heightened suspicion. Media narratives began attaching the do-rag to gang culture, violence, criminality, and “thuggishness,” despite the fact that fabric itself carries no morality. Because cloth does not create fear. Bias does. Stereotypes do. Conditioning does. The do-rag became another example of how Black identity is often interpreted through fear before humanity. And if we are being honest, Black men have historically carried a unique burden when it comes to appearance and public perception in America. Clothing, hairstyles, posture, tone, and even body language have often been scrutinized through racialized assumptions long before character is ever considered. The do-rag entered that same unfortunate category. But the bonnet carries a different story. A story deeply tied to Black womanhood. And Black women know all too well what it feels like to have our appearance constantly politicized.For generations, Black women’s hair has existed under public scrutiny in ways that few other groups fully understand. Too natural. Too ethnic. Too loud. Too straight. Too nappy. Too big. Too “urban.” Too Black. There has always seemed to be some invisible scoreboard determining whether Black women’s appearance is acceptable enough to deserve dignity. That pressure shaped entire generations. Many Black mothers and grandmothers taught their daughters that looking “presentable” was connected to pride, safety, and respectability. You did not leave the house in rollers. You did not go outside in pajamas. And you absolutely did not wear your bonnet in public. Not because bonnets were shameful. But because older generations believed presentation could shield Black people from racist assumptions and public humiliation. And whether people agree with that philosophy or not, we cannot discuss it honestly without acknowledging where it came from. Those beliefs were shaped by survival. By generations who understood that Black people were often denied grace, opportunity, and dignity over the smallest perceived flaw. For many older Black women, presentation became armor. But younger generations increasingly challenge that idea. To many younger Black women today, wearing a bonnet publicly is not viewed as embarrassing at all. It is practical. Comfortable. Convenient and Authentic. And for some women, it is also deeply intentional. A refusal to constantly perform perfection, A refusal to exhaust themselves trying to appear “acceptable” in every public space and A refusal to carry respectability politics as a permanent burden. Because Black people have spent generations navigating the exhausting balance between authenticity and acceptability. Between self-expression and survival, Between comfort and public perception, Between cultural pride and societal judgment. And perhaps that is why conversations about bonnets and do-rags become so emotional inside our own community. Because underneath the satin and fabric is something much deeper, our history, fear, pride, resistance, freedom and the ongoing fight to exist fully as ourselves without constantly being interpreted through stereotypes. In Part Three of this op-ed series, The Double Standard: Cultural Theft and Selective Acceptance, I’ll explore the painful contradiction of how Black aesthetics, language, fashion, hairstyles, and cultural expression are frequently criticized, criminalized, or labeled “unprofessional” on Black bodies,only to later become celebrated, monetized, and mainstream when adopted by others. 3 Important Truths About Do-Rags, Bonnets & Black Identity 1. Protective Style Does Not Equal Negative Character Do-rags and bonnets originated as functional hair maintenance tools within Black culture. The stereotypes attached to them were socially created,not historically inherent. 2. Respectability Politics Were Rooted in Survival Older generations often emphasized public presentation because they believed appearance could reduce racial discrimination and protect Black dignity in hostile environments. 3. The Real Debate Is About Identity, Not Fabric The public conversation surrounding bonnets and do-rags reflects larger issues involving race, generational differences, gender expectations, cultural pride, and society’s policing of Black self- expression. About the Contributor Felicia Kelly-Brookins is an award-winning author, screenwriter, playwright, and the Founder and Executive Director of the S.A.F.E. S.P.A.C.E. TheaterTherapy Foundation, an organization dedicated to creating emotionally safe spaces for youth, teens, families, and communities through storytelling, theatrical dialogue, literacy, and mental health advocacy. Known for blending cultural commentary, emotional truth, faith, family dynamics, and social awareness into her work, Brookins uses her voice to challenge difficult conversations surrounding identity, trauma, generational silence, mental health, relationships, and the complexities of Black culture. Her work is deeply rooted in advocacy, authenticity, and the belief that storytelling has the power not only to entertain, but to heal, confront, educate, and transform communities

3 Powerful Truths About Bonnets, Do-Rags & Black Identity

Felicia Kelly-Brookins — Mon, 18 May 2026 15:21:00 +0000

Major Takeaways

Bonnets and do-rags originated as practical hair protection tools within Black culture before becoming politicized symbols tied to identity and perception.
Older generations often viewed public presentation as a survival strategy shaped by racism, discrimination, and respectability politics.
Black cultural expression is frequently criticized before later being commercialized, copied, and embraced by mainstream society.

Bonnet Do-Rag, Satin & Stereotypes: Why America Loves Our Culture But Judges Our Presentation

Op Editorial by Felicia Kelly-Brookins• 6 min read Beneath the surface of bonnets, do-rags, waves, and satin wraps lies a much deeper conversation about race, identity, gender, class, beauty, respectability, and cultural double standards in America. Silk, Satin & Stereotypes examines how Black hair protection and presentation evolved from cultural necessity and self-care into symbols politicized, criticized, commercialized, and copied by mainstream society. this op-ed explores the complicated relationship between Black expression, public perception, and the ongoing policing of Black appearance in America. There was a time, especially in many Black households, when stepping outside wearing a bonnet would earn you that look. From your auntie. Your grandmother. The church mothers and even the woman in line at the grocery store who didn’t even know your name but somehow felt qualified to decide whether you were “representing yourself well.”And if we’re honest, many of us grew up hearing some version of the same thing: “Take that bonnet off before you leave this house.” Not because our people hated bonnets.Not because bonnets were foreign to Black culture. But because many Black families were raised to believe presentation was tied to survival. For older generations of Black people, looking “put together” in public was never just about fashion. It was about protection. Respectability. Safety. Dignity. It was about understanding that the world was already waiting to reduce us to stereotypes, so many families taught their children not to give society any additional ammunition. That mindset did not come out of nowhere.It came out of history. Out of racism.Out of discrimination.Out of generations of Black people being told they had to be twice as polished just to receive half the respect. So, when older Black people criticize bonnets in public, I don’t always believe the criticism is as shallow as social media makes it seem. Sometimes what sounds like judgment is actually fear inherited from survival culture. But here’s where the conversation becomes deeper. Today, the bonnet has moved beyond nighttime protection. It has moved beyond the bedroom mirror, Now the bonnet is at airports, gas stations, college campuses, On TikTok, Facebook, Instagram and other public social media platforms. It’s even making appearances in celebrity fashion campaigns, music videos, and On runways. And somewhere between survival and style, the bonnet became something bigger than fabric. It became symbolic. The same thing happened with the do-rag. What were once simple protective hair tools somehow transformed into cultural markers loaded with social meaning. Depending on who is looking, bonnets and do-rags now symbolize completely different things. To some people, they represent comfort; to others, confidence; to others, authenticity; to others, rebellion; to others, “ghetto”; to others, Black pride; to others, laziness; and to others, fashion. And honestly? That says more about society than it does about the people wearing them. Because the real issue has never truly been satin or silk.The real issue is perception. The real issue is how Blackness itself gets interpreted depending on the room we walk into. I find it interesting that so many aspects of Black culture go through the same cycle repeatedly, when we introduce ourselves and our style, flavor, and voice we are mocked, criminalized, called unprofessional and looked down upon, but when someone of another culture or ethnic group repackages that same style, flavor or culture it suddenly becomes acceptable, edgy, fashionable, trendy, or innovative. We have watched it happen with our lips, Our music, Our slang, Our bodies, hairstyles, rhythms, fashion and aesthetics. So, it should not surprise us that bonnets and do-rags eventually entered that same conversation. But before social media debates and public think pieces, these items had a very real and necessary purpose inside Black communities.That part often gets erased. Black hair requires maintenance that many outside our culture simply do not understand. Press-and-curl styles, Braids, Locs, Silk presses, Perms, Natural hair. All of these require care routines built specifically around texture, moisture retention, and protection. Bonnets were never originally created for performance. They were created for preservation. Bonnets help preserve curls, protect braids, maintain moisture, and extend hairstyles that can take hours, and significant money, to complete. Do-rags served similar purposes. They helped maintain wave patterns, Protected braids and locs and Compressed and preserved styles after barber visits. In other words, these were not symbols of laziness. They were tools. Hair care tools, Protective garments, and cultural necessities developed within a community that historically had to learn how to care for itself when mainstream beauty standards and industries ignored our needs altogether.That distinction matters. Because much of the public conversation removes the history while keeping the judgment. And once history gets removed from Black cultural practices, stereotypes quickly rush in to replace understanding.As a Black woman who deeply loves Black culture, I think we have to learn how to hold multiple truths at the same time. Yes, presentation matters in certain spaces. Yes, some people see bonnets and do-rags as expressions of freedom and authenticity. Yes, some older generations associate public presentation with discipline and survival. Yes, society absolutely applies double standards to Black aesthetics. And yes, Black people should be allowed to exist comfortably without every choice becoming a public morality debate. But I also believe this conversation is bigger than hair. It is really about respectability politics. Class, Gender, Generational divides, Identity, And who gets to define what “acceptable Blackness” looks like in public. Black people are constantly being told our humanity is negotiable based on presentation. And that is a burden few other cultures are asked to carry in quite the same way. This conversation is far from over. In Part Two of this op-ed series, I’ll dive deeper into The History of the Do-Rag: From Labor Cloth to Cultural Marker, exploring how a simple piece of fabric traveled from fields and factories to hip-hop culture, public controversy, fashion, masculinity, criminalization, and identity politics in America. 3 Critical Truths About Bonnets, Do-Rags, and Black Cultural Identity Understand the history before judging the presentation. Bonnets and do-rags were never originally symbols of laziness or “lack of class.” They were protective hair tools created within Black culture to preserve and maintain textured hair. Removing that historical context often leads to unfair stereotypes and shallow assumptions. Recognize how respectability politics shaped older generations. Many Black families taught public presentation as a form of protection and survival in a society already biased against Black people. What may appear as criticism from older generations is often connected to historical fear, dignity, and the pressure to avoid reinforcing racist stereotypes. Question why Black culture is often judged before it is celebrated. Many aspects of Black identity from hairstyles to fashion to language—are frequently criticized when worn by Black people, then later embraced as trendy or fashionable by mainstream culture. The conversation about bonnets and do-rags reflects a larger issue surrounding Black identity, perception, and cultural double standards. About Contributor: Felicia Kelly-Brookins is an award-winning author, screenwriter, playwright, and the Founder and Executive Director of the S.A.F.E. S.P.A.C.E. TheaterTherapy Foundation, an organization dedicated to creating emotionally safe spaces for youth, teens, families, and communities through storytelling, theatrical dialogue, literacy, and mental health advocacy. Known for blending cultural commentary, emotional truth, faith, family dynamics, and social awareness into her work, Brookins uses her voice to challenge difficult conversations surrounding identity, trauma, generational silence, mental health, relationships, and the complexities of Black culture. Her work is deeply rooted in advocacy, authenticity, and the belief that storytelling has the power not only to entertain, but to heal, confront, educate, and transform communities.

5 Social Media Lies About Love, Likes & Lies That Are Rewriting Dating Expectations

Felicia Kelly-Brookins — Wed, 06 May 2026 13:50:34 +0000

MAJOR TAKEAWAYS

Social media has turned love into a performance instead of a private connection
Unrealistic expectations are being shaped by comparison, not real-life experience
Young people are learning relationship standards from what’s visible not what’s valuable

LOVE, LIKES & LIES: PART FOUR

How social media Is Rewriting Dating Expectations for a Generation Still Learning What Love
Means

Op-Editorial By Felicia Kelly-Brookins• 6 min read

There was a time when love was something you felt, quietly, deeply, and often privately.
Now, it is something you prove. Scroll through any social feed and the message is clear: love
is no longer just an experience, it’s a presentation. It’s curated in real time, measured in
reactions, and validated by visibility. The dinner dates are no longer just shared, they’re
staged. Gifts aren’t simply given, they’re documented. And the relationship itself becomes
social media content before it ever has the chance to become connection.

For a generation raised on digital affirmation, love is being redefined in ways that are subtle,
but significant. What used to be built through conversation is now inferred through captions.
What once required emotional presence is now replaced by public performance. And in that
shift, something sacred is being repackaged as something sellable.
The danger isn’t just in what is being shown, it’s in what is being believed.

Because when love begins to look like a lifestyle brand, it stops being about alignment and
starts becoming about acquisition. Who has more, gives more and looks like more. And for
teenagers and young adults still forming their understanding of relationships, the line
between what is real and what is rehearsed is becoming harder to see.
What they are witnessing is not just influencing how they date. It is shaping what they expect
love to cost and what they believe it is worth.
There is also a noticeable shift in what is being prioritized.
Social media has elevated:
• What someone has over who they are
• How someone looks over how they live
• What someone gives over what they stand for

Lavish gifts become proof of love. Public displays become validation of commitment.
Financial status becomes a prerequisite for worthiness. But material indicators were never
meant to carry the weight of emotional or spiritual compatibility.
Because when love is measured by what can be posted, it will always require an audience to
feel real. And relationships that depend on performance rarely survive in private.
The issue is not that young people have standards. The issue is where those standards are
coming from. When expectations are shaped by comparison, they become unrealistic.

When they are shaped by insecurity, they become demanding. When they are shaped by
culture without correction, they become unstable.
Young people are entering relationships carrying expectations they did not build, but feel
entitled to enforce. And without grounding, those expectations often lead to disappointment,
conflict, and emotional instability. Because what is trending is not always what is true.
This is where accountability becomes necessary. Women, mothers, mentors, influencers,
and visible voices, are not just participants in culture. They are architects of it.
And the question must be asked:
What are we modeling?
What are we promoting?
What are we normalizing?

Because whether intentional or not, younger women are watching. They are studying how
love is discussed. How relationships are handled. How worth is defined. And they will follow
what they see, even if it leads them away from what is right.
If the message being modeled prioritizes attention over integrity, validation over values, and
visibility over virtue, then we should not be surprised when the next generation adopts the
same blueprint. Guidance is not just what we say. It is what we live.
If social media has become the loudest teacher, then truth must become more intentional.

Because love was never meant to be learned through comparison. It was meant to be
cultivated through character. Developed through patience. Strengthened through purpose.
Teenagers and young adults do not just need better advice. They need better examples.
They need to see relationships that are not performative, but principled. Not perfect, but
purposeful. Not built for display, but built to last. Because the next generation is not just
watching love. They are learning it. And what they learn now will shape not only how they
date, but how they build, break, and believe in love for the rest of their lives.

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