Comments on: 100 Single 6-Figure Black Men vs. 100 Single Black Women

By: Felicia K.

Felicia K. — Wed, 28 May 2025 14:44:12 +0000

I enjoyed reading the article. Here is my two cents. I can tell that either a man or a male-centered woman wrote it, though. It’s been my experience that there are a lot of men who have the resources to be a great provider, but they lack emotional maturity. Don’t get me wrong, some women are emotionally immature as well.
Women (the aware ones) have a tendency to work on themselves to be better, men have a tendency to work on their “portfolio”.
My prayer is that more men start stepping up and doing the necessary work so that both men and women can go about building healthy successful relationships. Having money/wealth is just a part of and a TOOL to support healthy successful relationships between men and women.

By: Latarsha Hughes

Latarsha Hughes — Fri, 23 May 2025 02:48:25 +0000

This article, in fact, acknowledges the elephant(s) in the room. Healthy relationships start with having healthy and real conversations regarding “our togetherness”. The viewpoint “he doesn’t care about your grind”, undoubtedly resonates and sparks an important discussion. While some men may not want a companion who replicates their job grind, many men respect ambition and drive in a woman. It’s not about competition. Healthy relationships are founded on complimenting one another’s skills. That said, there’s wisdom in the idea that relationship success isn’t just about external accomplishments. Emotional intelligence, vulnerability, and the ability to create a sense of peace and partnership are just as vital—regardless of gender. Being “soft where he needs softness” in my opinion, isn’t about diminishing who you are. It’s about being emotionally attuned and supportive, just as we hope our partners are for us.
Ultimately, it’s about balance. You can be powerful and nurturing. Driven and emotionally available. The right partner won’t see your grind as a threat—but they will appreciate that you know when to lead and when to lean in.

By: Nicole

Nicole — Wed, 21 May 2025 22:03:26 +0000

Dating as a successful Black woman is like being a high speed train; powerful, unstoppable, and commanding attention wherever you go. But some people can’t handle the ride. Meanwhile, successful Black men are navigating their own pressure-cooker world, balancing legacy, expectations, and proving their worth in rooms that weren’t built for them. The dating pool can feel like a VIP section with limited seating, and sometimes success gets mistaken for competition instead of collaboration.

By: Sheena J

Sheena J — Tue, 20 May 2025 10:33:03 +0000

Great writing! The observation gave insight and the objective was clearly stated and defended. I would love to read further into the dynamic as it relates to loneliness vs being alone in those same socioeconomic spaces. Maybe even coming into the perspective of when the incomes do not match. This was an intelligible read.

By: Kayana G.

Kayana G. — Mon, 19 May 2025 21:42:58 +0000

ON POINT!!

By: T. Washington

T. Washington — Mon, 19 May 2025 19:07:11 +0000

Oh, now this is good stuff!! GREAT article!!

By: Ms. Monroe

Ms. Monroe — Mon, 19 May 2025 18:45:18 +0000

GREAT ARTICLE…..seeded with truth! So many people (us) fall into these traps when connection will do! This is very well written. Vulnerability, honesty & transparency can truly lead to real connection. Very well done.

By: Tiffany White

Tiffany White — Mon, 19 May 2025 18:21:35 +0000

Love this truth! Not a battle of the sexes— a mirror. Two sides of the same ache, same armor, same silent prayer for something real. I love that this experiment dared to ask: if we strip away the noise, the narratives, the fear… can we still find our way back to each other? There are voids on both sides in the name of grind and as the result of parts of our vitality being ignored. Honestly that’s why we work so hard with the next gen. At DylanandMommy.co, that’s what we’re planting in our children—legacy that feels like home. Love that doesn’t need a performance. And the belief that wholeness is possible, together. Instilling the need for wholeness at every step in life, no matter how far up the ladder you go. Awesome read! Keep the dialogue going!🔥

By: Savannah Bishop

Savannah Bishop — Mon, 19 May 2025 17:38:13 +0000

See…this is how you highlight both Black men and women, who are both either about the bag and/or peace and structure without singling/canceling out the other sex. If you can genuinely BE who you portray, then I truly believe you’ll ATTRACT what you portray.

By: Betty Walker

Betty Walker — Mon, 19 May 2025 17:38:03 +0000

This article highlights some very important & sometimes misrepresented facts & issues in the black community. Self love self preservation & self prioritization is both needed in both groups. A relationship with God or whomever your higher power is, will help you go in the right direction. Learn to listen to that voice of wisdom & reason & it won’t steer you in the wrong direction. Ask for guidance and have patience.